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So, This Is One of My Pet Peeves

public speaking pet peeve

 

 

So, I have to tell you a pet peeve of mine. It drives me crazy. Every time I hear it, it grates on my nerves.

 

What is it? It’s when people unnecessarily say “so” at the beginning of a sentence. I don’t understand it. Nor do I don’t know when it became so prevalent?

 

“What’s the big deal?” you may be asking. It’s simple. When a sentence begins with “so” for no reason, it’s just not as strong. Read the following sentences aloud.

 

So, I was standing in the rain, waiting for a cab, when all of a sudden …

 

I was standing in the rain, waiting for a cab, when all of a sudden …

 

There are times when it is appropriate to use the word, but adding it to the beginning of a sentence for no other reason than it’s a habit is not one of them. If this is one of your habits, you might want to think about breaking it. It’s not difficult to overcome, and your presentations to 1 or 1,000 will be more powerful and more professional.

 

PS OMG! As I just typed the last word of this post, I heard a Mutual of Omaha commercial on television. The main speaker in the commercial used “so” three times where it was unnecessary, if not detrimental. Ugh!

Peter George

My expertise is in helping people who want to be calm, confident, and credible every time speak in public -- whether they're presenting in meetings, speaking on stage, or selling to prospects. I do this through one-to-one coaching, corporate training, and public workshops. As a result, they can increase their impact, increase their influence, and increase their income.

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